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If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or uncertain about your next steps, counselling offers a structured space to understand what’s happening and begin moving forward with steadiness and purpose.
I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties, and significant life transitions. Together, we take a thoughtful and practical approach to creating meaningful change.
Most people begin with an initial consultation – a clear first step where we explore what’s happening and decide on the best way forward.
What Counselling and Coaching in Auckland Looks Like in Practice.
Our work focuses on understanding emotional patterns, making sense of what’s happening beneath the surface, and identifying realistic next steps.
Over time, this often supports people to:
Work through recurring emotional patterns
Gain clarity about what’s happening and why
Identify meaningful and achievable next steps
Build a healthier, more fulfilling way forward
Meaningful change usually unfolds across a number of sessions. For this reason, many people choose to continue with structured counselling packages that provide consistency, depth, and momentum.
If this approach feels like the right fit, the next step is to arrange an initial consultation.
I’ve been a qualified Counsellor since 2008 and in private practice since 2010. My background also includes supportive and rehabilitation roles dating back to 2000. In 2020, I completed a professional Coaching qualification to further strengthen the practical, forward-focused aspects of my work.
I’m a full member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (MNZAC) and hold an Annual Practising Certificate.
My approach is thoughtful, structured, and grounded. I work collaboratively, helping you develop clarity, emotional steadiness, and practical momentum so that meaningful change feels achievable rather than overwhelming.

Life transitions such as career changes, separation, relocation, parenthood, or shifts in identity can feel destabilising.
In our work together, we explore what this transition means for you, clarify what matters most, and develop steadier ways to move into the next phase of life with confidence and direction.
Stress can build gradually through work pressures, responsibilities, and ongoing demands until it begins to feel overwhelming.
Counselling provides a structured space to understand how stress is affecting you and to develop healthier, more sustainable ways of managing pressure without becoming depleted.
Relationship difficulties often involve communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, emotional distance, or feeling misunderstood.
I work with individuals and couples to understand underlying patterns, improve communication, rebuild trust where needed, and create healthier ways of relating.
Anxiety can show up as constant worry, overthinking, tension, or feeling on edge.
Together, we explore what may be driving your anxiety and develop practical strategies to help you feel more settled, grounded, and in control.
Depression or low mood can involve loss of motivation, persistent sadness, disconnection, or feeling stuck.
Counselling focuses on understanding contributing factors while gradually rebuilding direction, energy, and engagement with life.
Many men experience pressure around responsibility, identity, emotional expression, and expectations.
I provide a structured and confidential space to explore these challenges, strengthen resilience, and develop clearer, healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
If you recognise yourself in any of the above areas, arranging an initial consultation is the next step toward clarity and steady progress.
Blogs
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For those of you who’ve worked with me or read my blogs before, you’ll know how much I believe in exploring the deeper themes that shape our relationships and personal […]
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If you’re considering counselling, the next step is to arrange an initial consultation.
This focused 55-minute session allows us to clarify what’s happening, explore what you’d like to change, and decide on the most helpful way forward.
Sessions are available:
• In person at Highland Park Community House, Auckland
• Online via Zoom
• Monday to Friday, morning through evening
To arrange your initial consultation:
Text 021 058 3234
or email philip@newbeginningstherapy.co.nz
Include a brief note about what you’d like to work on, and I’ll reply with available times.
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Posted on Fleur Elizabeth21. April, 2021.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I highly recommend Phil as a relationship and personal counselor. He stands out in his field for having genuine empathy and a respectful client relationship style. He offers sound and practical advice.Posted on Jim Marjoram18. December, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I've found Phil to be a wonderful, passionate and caring person. He's quite holistic in his approach and always ready to expand his already excellent skills and knowledge of the profession. Also highly recommended for LGBT people!Posted on Bass for Tea “Bass for Tea”18. December, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I have known Phil since 1998 and he has always been known to help others and be very supportive to help people resolve personal problems and boost self confidence. He is a dedicated Counsellor and has a passion for helping people with issues with relationships.Posted on lovelifevegan15. December, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is a dedicated and caring counsellor I've known for many years. He is a considerate and thoughtful person who genuinely cares about other people. He is kind and trustworthy and I would not hesitate recommending him as a therapist.Posted on Sarah U14. December, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is passionate about his counselling work, and while I have not been a client myself I know that Phil is a hard working, thoughtful and easy person to talk to.Posted on Aletta Schoeman5. December, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I have met Phil a few years ago and he has proven time and time again his commitment towards focusing on great client care and their mental health journey. I haven't been a client myself, but his dedication to always be well educated and to give his clients the best possible service, has really made a huge impression.Posted on Nichola Jones27. November, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is a dedicated and professional counsellor, he is great at listening, feeding back and giving good advice.Posted on Tim Pendleton27. November, 2016.Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is a dedicated Counsellor and has diligently continued his professional development by specialising in offering support to people recovering from destructive relationships.
Terms and conditions
All individual sessions are to be paid in full before the session. 48 hours’ notice is required to cancel a session. After this time, the fee will be kept, or a session will be counted (if on a package). This excludes extenuating circumstances. All sessions are non-refundable.
